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How I Got Back With My Hot Ex Girlfriend!
I don’t want to bore you with the story of Veronica and I; all you need to know is that we were college students, with the same interests and dorms that were close enough to walk in 5 minutes. We dated for 3 years, and frequently joked about the plans for the future. That is, until she dumped me over an argument that, apparently, was the last tip of the iceberg for her.
We didn’t fight often. As a matter of fact, I thought I was the sweetest boyfriend a girl could ever have. We were always happy together – yes, we got on each other’s nerves every once in a while, but what couple doesn’t? However, I had certain down sides that really pissed Veronica off. She couldn’t deal with my insincerity and lateness, for example. I had a hectic schedule that I could barely manage, and she had little patience for my antics. I felt no appreciation for the hard effort I would put at work, AFTER spending 12 hours in and out of classes and libraries. What hurt me the most is that I was working to save up for an engagement ring when we broke up, but that’s a whole another story…
I thought I would never get Veronica back. In my eyes, I was a heartless prick who couldn’t make it right for his girl. Boy, was I wrong.
Not only did Veronica beg for me to take her back, but we actually have a better relationship now than we did before! The whole experience made me realize that a breakup doesn’t have to be the END of a relationship – sometimes, it’s just another bump in the road of love. And sometimes, just to overcome it, you might need a little help. But I was able to save the love of my life, and cherish it for years to come. How did I do it? Easy. My friend told me about this book he read, and the book hinted at these three tips:
1) Don’t be afraid to apologize. I’m not one to stereotype, but as a Business major trying to get a steady job in a bookkeeping company, I know my classmates pretty well. As all accountants, I can sometimes come off as a total prick. My problem gets even worse than that, because I A) don’t know when to shut my mouth in an argument, and B) don’t know how to apologize. “I’m sorry, I was wrong, how can I make it right” can go SUCH a long way!
2) I frequently texted Veronica about important decisions. This isn’t a stipulation, but a fact based on a recent survey conducted by people who work for Oprah. I never knew that in 87% of all cases, women feel like they’re more of a part in making a decision over a phone conversation! Who knew that a text message could ruin my future?
3) I did not realize that I never spoiled my girl until after I looked back in time and realized that the last time we made … (to be continued) http://getbackexgirlfriendnow.blogspot.com/ Article Source:http://www.articlesbase.com/breakup-articles/how-i-got-back-with-my-hot-ex-girlfriend-1623796.html
